Social media is great for keeping in touch but it is the death of privacy as we know it. 3 degrees of separation becomes none.
What exactly are you sharing?
The thing is more people pay attention to your FB page then you think. They just might take the time to put 2 and 2 together (in their head that is) and assume the worse. The truth is that ex that strings you along but begs to reconcile just when you are moving on is watching! So is that potential new lover that is just waiting in the wings, she might think you are absolutely in love but you are actually on the brink of ending it (for the 5th or 6th time but hey......it takes time). Or that kaypoh (busybody) acquaintance who likes to ask about just anything short of how many strands of pubic hair you have.
Unless you want the entire world to call you or worse still question you openly on FB about is it your dramatic ex again or question your singlehood or lack there of incessantly, don't make it so obvious! The thing is you can't delete their comments fast enough (damn it!).
Unless you want to piss the shit out of your ex who didn't cherish you with lovey dovey photos taken in intimate settings with your new lover. Then by all means.
Revenge via new media is SWEETER than usual!
But if you are the bereaved ex that regrets letting her go and checks her FB obsessively for newest updates. Don't torture yourself, just let it go. Delete her or something.
If she calls you and demands why you delete her, you can let her have it for being insensitive.
Don't even go there!
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