Blackilocks

Say It ALL On Facebook

2010-09-16T01:33:00.000+08:00

Social media is great for keeping in touch but it is the death of privacy as we know it. 3 degrees of separation becomes none. What exactly are you sharing? The thing is more people pay attention to your FB page then you think. They just might take the time to put 2 and 2 together (in their head that is) and assume the worse. The truth is that ex that strings you along but begs to reconcile

The Revenge Of The Scum

2010-09-14T05:54:00.000+08:00

I can't help but be annoyed at how some vindictive individuals will go to great lengths for revenge. Calling your ex's work place and outing him to his boss is low......so low. If you (Mr. Scum on my shoe) are reading this, you should be ashamed, very ashamed. If you have so much time on your hands now that you are single, for fuck sake, go do something productive like helping the needy

Out @ Work - Biographies Of Speakers

2010-09-02T10:47:00.002+08:00

We all encounter conversations such as: "Where's your boy/girlfriend?" "Are you married?" "Why don't you wear skirts?" (Somehow it is a hot favourite for girls) "Why don't you use make up?" "You need to be more feminine/masculine." "Why aren't you married?" We all know that its not easy to strive in such a competitive work environment, hidden prejudice or otherwise. The fact is that some

FREE Discussion For Coming Out @ Work

2010-08-30T11:43:00.000+08:00

Be inspired by the coming out stories of lesbian, gay and bisexual individuals from different walks of life. Find out how to be comfortable with one's sexuality in the workplace. What is a company's diversity policy and what it means for you? Share and engage in active discussions in a small group setting. Out @ Work is a secular event for all, FREE admission and light refreshments will be

Zhang Yun Jing's Newest Album Interview 網易娛樂超級面對面張芸京

2010-08-28T03:43:00.001+08:00

Our Stories

2010-08-28T03:24:00.009+08:00

I went to a Oyoung Wenfeng's book launch of "Our Stories" 欧阳文风编著 "我们的故事". Written in mandarin, "Our Stories" is a compilation of the true accounts of 15 ethnic Chinese lesbian and gays from around the world. This is one of his many books (both english and mandarin) about LGBTQ lifestyles and the people who walk the talk. What stood out to me about him was, one word......courage. A once

A Nation For You & Me?

2010-08-10T13:40:00.005+08:00

I hope you girls had a fabulous National Day long weekend. As I watched the gorgeous fireworks display, I was saddened by the lack of patriotism I exhibit for Singapore. It has been a couple of years since I have been back and I keep waiting for the "I Love Singapore" bug to hit me. But NO, NOTHING...... I know we have it good here, people are starving in the world while we are

To Fight To Topple Prop 8 Continues

2010-08-08T17:00:00.003+08:00

Until Wednesday, the thousands of same-sex couples who have married did so because a state judge or Legislature allowed them to. The nation’s most fundamental guarantees of freedom, set out in the Constitution, were not part of the equation. That has changed with the historic decision by a federal judge in California, Vaughn Walker, that said his state’s ban on same-sex marriage violated the 14th

Anne Rice Comes Out!

2010-08-08T16:47:00.003+08:00

Bestselling novelist Anne Rice, whose 1976 novel "Interview with the Vampire" was way ahead of the current vampire craze, in the last decade reinvented herself as a Christian writer who returned to the Catholic faith of her youth and began writing books such as "Christ the Lord: Out of Egypt," which imagined Jesus as a child of 7 or 8 years old.Now, Rice has shocked her readers again by

Keith Olbermann speaking on Prop 8

2010-08-08T16:26:00.005+08:00

This is Keith Olbermann speaking on Prop 8 right after it was passed. As you may know Prop 8 destroyed the right of gays to be married in California. And only this last week did Judge Walker strike down Prop 8 as unconstitutional. This statement by Olbermann is perhaps better than anything I have heard in years. Keith Olbermann Special Comment: Proposition 8 @ Yahoo! Video

My Wife Is Lesbian, My Husband Is Gay

2010-06-20T19:40:00.004+08:00

CHINA DAILY -Lesbian partners are tying the knot with gay couples to satisfy their parents, but find the deception exhausting. Mei Jia reportsZhang Nana (not her real name), a 32-year-old working for a Beijing-based magazine, and her 58-year-old parents are caught in a crisis that threatens to tear apart the family.But it was only in October 2006 that her parents attended the banquet that

First Date Dilemma

2010-06-20T19:35:00.001+08:00

You Sense The Change

2010-06-19T00:38:00.002+08:00

There is always this one moment when you decide you are over her. It happens when you cannot muster the energy to discuss anything anymore. Your usual must-resolve mindset (often taken as nagging) fail to reawaken once again. Your lips refuse to move, your mouth is sealed shut. You feel your heart die a little and tears remain stubborn. The rights and wrongs do not matter. The good and bad

Now, This Is Love

2010-06-16T18:54:00.003+08:00

Have you ever loved someone so much that you are willing to wait for them for years and years? I often hear of lesbians who pine away for someone for eons. Or of lesbians who are willing to agree to unusual circumstances, i.e: being the third party or being a temporary emotional crutch. I have never ever felt this way. Sure......some might say I am a hopeless romantic but my belief that everyone

Privacy Vs Publicity

2010-06-16T18:32:00.003+08:00

I wondered why I haven't blogged in such a long time.I guess it is because too many people ask about my writing. Which indicates interest (thank you very much) but also attracts needless gossip. Seriously, don't even try to understand the complex intricacies that make up ME through my writing. It would take way more than that to really really understand me. Let's put it this way, sometimes even I

10 Great Books To Read

2010-05-17T22:23:00.005+08:00

The Road Less Travelled by M.Scott Peck Conversations With God by Neale Donald Walsh Time Traveller's Wife by Audrey NiffeneggerWomen Food And God by Geneen Roth Rich Dad Poor Dad by Robert T. Kiyosaki The Growing Pains Of Adrian Mole by Sue Townsend If It Takes A Village, Build One by Malaak Compton-Rock Say You're One of Them by Uwem AkpanA New Earth - Awakening To Your Life's Purpose by

Pink Dot 2010 Update

2010-05-17T00:35:00.003+08:00

Dearest friends, We would like to thank everyone who turned up last Saturday, the volunteers, donors, sponsors, venues and anyone else who supported Pink Dot 2010 tangibly or otherwise for making the event a resounding success.The turnout of over 4,000 people has set the record for the largest gathering at Hong Lim Park since the government liberalised the use of Speakers' Corner in September

Fatbulous Women This Mother's Day

2010-05-09T12:10:00.005+08:00

This is for the fabulous women out there. Self-love (not that kind, although that kind is great too) can be so difficult sometimes when girls are torn in many ways by obligations around them. I feel self love is the most difficult of all, we all judge ourselves and others around us. Part of having a healthy body image is to love what you have and make the best of it.

2nd Chinese Lala Alliance Membership Meeting

2010-05-09T11:59:00.005+08:00

MAKING CONNECTIONS, BREAKING NEW GROUND- The 2nd Chinese Lala Alliance Membership Meeting and Elections held on April 24th-25th, 2010, Chinese Lala Alliance held its 2nd membership meeting and elections in the beautiful coastal city of Xiamen, Fujian Province. 35 participants representing 25 organizations from 17 cities in Mainland China, Taiwan, Hong Kong, and the United States attended the

Coming Out

2010-05-09T11:57:00.001+08:00

My friend just came out to her family today.Her parents never did suspect.Questions about how she should get married and why she wasn't dating a guy were pushed under the carpet.When she was a student and still living under their roof, she was afraid to come out just in case they threw her out.When she started working and had a girlfriend, she said she would tell them when her career is

Are You Woman Enough?

2010-03-09T23:40:00.004+08:00

Love hurts, everyone knows that. Does it mean the more you love, the more you hurt? Or the more you think you gave, the more you hurt? Or does it start hurting when you start calculating who did what for whom and who gave more of their heart. But it seems not matter how you see it or when you tabulate it, there is never going to be a perfect balance. Because love means not calculating

Passing Of US Hate Crimes Act

2009-10-30T06:50:00.005+08:00

The Matthew Shepard and James Byrd Jr. Hate Crimes Act passed through Congress on 22/10/09. It was attached to a defense department bill that will also authorize $130 billion to continue fighting the wars in Afghanistan and Iraq. The Senate voted 68-29 to pass the bill, which adds sexual orientation, gender, disability or gender identity to current hate crimes law, which already defines a hate

Drool Worthy Athlete - Dara Torres

2009-10-20T09:46:00.010+08:00

Dara Torres, 41, is the first American swimmer to compete in five Olympics and the oldest to qualify for a Games. She has won nine Olympic medals, starting with a gold as a member of the 4x100-meter freestyle relay in 1984, when she was 17.Torres set a world record in the 50 freestyle in 1983, two years before the current world-record holder in the event, Libby Trickett of Australia, was born.

Nick That Necklace!

2009-09-26T00:43:00.006+08:00

Available from www.anthropologie.com, these quirky necklaces are hand made in belgium. These little babies can dress up any outfit! Best worn with simple outfits to make them POP POP POP. You can bet that you will be the talk of the event! Top to bottom: Hasty Hatchling, Automation Necklace, Carved & Molded, Learning-To-Fly

Shag That Sally!

2009-09-26T00:39:00.002+08:00

Sally Hershberger is a famous hair stylist known for creating Meg Ryan’s signature haircut, the “Sally Shag”, and appearing on the Bravo reality show, Shear Genius.Hershberger was born in Kansas and raised in California and began doing hair at eighteen. While still in beauty school, she became an apprentice to Arthur Johns, a well-known Hollywood salon.She is reportedly the first stylist in New

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2009-09-19T10:48:00.009+08:00

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Finders Keepers Loser Weepers

2009-09-19T09:17:00.004+08:00

You know your girlfriend is a keeper when she:1. Parks her car closer to her side so you can get out easily. 2. Kisses you good morning and good night. 3. Always offers to help you carry anything heavy. 4. Doesn't mind that you are getting fat. 5. Hand washes your underwear. 6. Keeps every promise she makes. 7. Completes your sentence. 8. Rubs your tummy when you are having cramps. 9. Always

My Tight Tight Love Affair

2009-09-19T08:35:00.009+08:00

My first encounter of the leggy kind was in my teens. I walked into a Victoria Secrets store and saw an array of stockings. Running my hand through the super sheer micro knit stocking, my love affair began. I bought the stockings that cost a bomb for a university student and brought it home.Wondering when I was going to wear them, I tucked them safely away in the lingerie drawer where it lay ever

Thighy Not So Whities

2009-09-19T08:29:00.004+08:00

The Tight As Can Be Challenge

2009-09-18T10:12:00.012+08:00

Can you tell which is which? Leggings, Tights, Stockings and Hosiery? Answers below.The answer is that these terms are SO inter-changable right now. There is such a mixture of lengths, materials, texture and design that the line is definitely muddy. The point is, just go wild and have fun. Switch it up, tone it down and make it work! A good pair of leg-stockings or tights-leggings is a MUST HAVE!

My Girlfriend Likes My Clothes!

2009-09-16T09:52:00.006+08:00

One of the best things about having a girlfriend of the same size is that you can mutually wardrobe raid to create many many new styles! Your wardrobe has suddenly grown twice the size!Here are some ways to mix it up a little! The best thing is that you will be carrying around her scent all day long. HEAVEN! You can try layering a vest over a shirt or a girlish top for a completely different

Look Three

2009-09-16T09:32:00.005+08:00

Heavy Metal Circus Bowtie Japanese fashion designer and illustrator Shojono Tomo has launched her new Spring/Summer 09 range featuring her colorful graphics, original illustrations and quirky creations. Rock a funky Tokyo street style look with a Heavy Metal Circus Bowtie. Plastered with rainbow utopian colors and Shojono Tomo art these bow ties are adjustable.

Look Two

2009-09-16T09:07:00.008+08:00

BDG Professor Shawl Collar CardiganKnit cotton cardigan with a shawl collar and pearloid buttons. Rib knit trim at the cuffs and hem; slit pockets at the front. Worn tight and buttoned up to better show off details of the T-shirt below. Get it at www.urbanoutfitters.com Penguin Baby by Seimani From a distance this print appears as a unique mix of blue and white but up close

Look One

2009-09-12T03:34:00.007+08:00

Levi's® Vintage 1950's Western Wear Heavy Smoke Shirt This check shirt from 50s was originally part of the Levi’s Western Wear range. It is made in light blue and pink check with Scovill check buttons and is sold in its own box. The Western Check Shirt has been heavily washed, making it very soft to the touch. Get it from http://www.oki-ni.com. Acne

One Pair of Shoes - Three Looks

2009-09-12T03:17:00.010+08:00

Keep Ramos Chukka sneaker Keep ‘Guerra’ 100% cotton canvas hi top with a combination of grey upper, grey/white cordlane stripes on the placket and a light blue/white gingham padded ankle. This style also has brown laces and a natural gum rubber moulded sole. Keep footwear is produced in Brazil in a very environmentally friendly way. Get it at http://www.oki-ni.com

Hubby Hubby Wifey Wifey?

2009-09-10T21:49:00.008+08:00

Ben and Jerry’s Hubby HubbyVermont is the first state in the US to legalise gay marriage with a legislative vote. Its law takes effect on September 1st 2009 Vermont-based ice cream manufacturer Ben and Jerry’s will rename “Chubby Hubby”, one of it bestselling flavours, “Hubby Hubby” for a month as new state laws recognising sex-marriages. The legalisation of marriage for gay and lesbian couples

2009-09-03T15:45:00.004+08:00

I FOUND MY PinK ElePhanT! PinK ElePhanT organises a series of sporting events for the lesbian community internationally. It is the brainchild of a group of like-minded lesbian whom appreciate the benefits of fitness and a tighter knitted community. The name was inspired by the colour pink which is representative of the GLBT community. The elephant is the largest land animal,

Who Stole My Pink Elephant?

2009-09-03T10:03:00.001+08:00

Ghosted

2009-08-16T12:59:00.008+08:00

http://www.imdb.com/title/tt1252595/ for synopsisClick on title for trailer.Ghosted is directed by openly lesbian director and writer: Monika Treut.Knowing this, I expected a more personal and in-depth exploration of lesbian relationships.I was sorely disappointed.It seems like she is trying to explore too many things at once.There were too many trains of thoughts and they all collided.The

Symptoms of Early On-Set Dyke Dramanitis (DD)

2009-07-29T12:24:00.003+08:00

Remember the phrase "Hell Has No Fury Like A Women Scorned"? A slight amendment should be made to " Hell Has No Fury Like A Women Who THINKS She's Scorned". Symptoms Of Early On-Set Dyke Dramanitis 1. The Poor-Me She has a habit of crying in front of other people. She flaunts her blood shot eyes to as many as possible. 2. The Drown-My-Sorrows She announces to whoever who would listen

Lesbian Financial Planning

2009-07-15T17:31:00.007+08:00

What first got me thinking about lesbian financial planning is accidentally chancing upon out and proud Suze Orman's show on one fateful late night. She was firm. She was fair. She gave it like it is. But most importantly she was clear. For the uninitiated, every episode evolved around a theme and callers can call in with their financial questions at the end of it. Questions can range from "Can I

When Duffle Bag Boy Met Satchel Girl

2009-07-08T03:20:00.003+08:00

Halfway around the world, DBB met SG.It is strange how their paths never did cross in a tiny sunny island called Singapore.They often wondered, is it fate?Wanting to think they were meant to be, both of them let themselves believe.They fell in love soon enough, the timing seemed right, the elements were in their favour.They knew each other first as friends and then lovers.But they were naive to

Photos of Zhang Yun Jing

2009-07-06T18:26:00.004+08:00

Zhang Yun Jing

2009-07-06T17:54:00.004+08:00

Zhang Yun Jing is the winner of the first season of Taiwanese talent show Super Idol, her androgyny is often talked about but she remains comfortable in her own skin. Touted as the "must watch" singer of 2009, check her out! http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0LcYP94JOc0

Are looks REALLY that important?

2009-06-26T12:08:00.008+08:00

Several lesbians have commented that the Singapore lesbian crowd is SO looks orientated. Is it really true? Does that modelesque face or figure really rock your boat? Or should I say, make your boat wet? Fake banana or not. *How about when you realise she is nothing but an empty vessel without even water? You wonder is it she doesn't know how to turn on the tap or she isn't intelligent enough to

Blackilocks Supports Sinema & Female Games

2009-06-25T07:45:00.005+08:00

In support of Sinema Old School and the world premiere of homosexual film Female GamesWe are giving away: 5 pairs of tickets to the SAMPLIFY! Talkback session (22nd July) 10 pairs of tickets for Female Games' regular screenings Brief information on the film: SAMPLIFY! Talkback Session: Female Games Date: 22nd July 2009, Wednesday Time: 8.00 p.m Venue: Sinema Old School Address: 11B Mount

Bullet Train To My Heart

2009-06-12T23:42:00.004+08:00

Quick, take a bullet train to my heart. Be careful not to shoot me while you are at it. Forget the boarding pass, jump the gate and quick step to my doorstep. I will send you a GPS to get there faster. Inside the GPS are my past lovers. But fear not, you will blow them all out of the water.

It's So Easy To Love You

2009-06-12T23:23:00.005+08:00

I can't find a love song that is suitable because we are so much more than one song. You make it so easy to love you. I can't find a photo that looks good to me because only videos can express your personality. I can't help falling into your arms the moment I met you. I can't help disliking people who are unworthy of you. I can't help wanting to wear your shirt to feel close to you. I can't bear

First Times

2009-06-12T23:05:00.003+08:00

Do you remember the first time you kissed a girl? Do you remember the first time you hugged her real tight? Do you remember the first time you thought "She's the one?"Do you remember the first time she held your hand and the world stopped turning? Do you remember her kisses so sweet that you swooned? Do you remember the first time you thought you might be gay? Do you remember the first time your

Skulls & Crossbones

2009-05-25T16:50:00.002+08:00

When do we know when someone is a true fit?Is it when you surprise each other with your similarities?Or when you realise the differences does not matter?How about when 2 people just know what each other wants from day 1?Is it possible that we were lovers in our past lifes?If so, then we were probably gay men.Somehow we just balance each other out.Boyish cute looks coupled with a girly

Aware EGM

2009-05-02T23:09:00.005+08:00

As I stood in line to register, the man next to me asked me this, "Is it going to be a cat fight today?"I was surprised at his candor and replied "I hope not. I hope everyone settle everything in a peaceful and legal manner."After waiting for all the members to arrive, the meeting started.From the start, it was total chaos.The EXCO looked helpless and listless while the members were passionate

Can't make it to the EGM, sign the petition instead

2009-04-30T12:41:00.002+08:00

Make an informed choice, sign the petition if you see fit. http://gopetition.com/petitions/gender-equality-for-all.html

Change of Location of Aware EGM

2009-04-30T10:26:00.000+08:00

Please note latest from Aware's new guard. 29th April 2009 To: AWARE MembersEXTRAORDINARY GENERAL MEETING TO BE HELD ON 2ND MAY 2009Notice is hereby given that: 1. The venue of the Extraordinary General Meeting (“EGM”) of the Association of Women for Action & Research (“AWARE”) to be held on Saturday, 2nd May 2009, from 2.00 p.m. to 5.00 p.m. is hereby changed as follows:Exhibition Hall 402

Touche- Walk In Style

2009-04-29T13:45:00.008+08:00

*Stylish to GIVE*Stylish to HEALTH* Date : 27th June 2009, Saturday Time: 10.30am to 2.30pm Venue: Sentosa - Palawan Beach – Angsana 1 Ticket Price : $40 Nett , $20 will be pledged to Club Rainbow (Singapore) Not Just A Walkathon…… TOUCHETM to host a Beach Walkathon to commemorate their 7th Anniversary Celebration An unprecedented rain or shine event to mark

Where to vote and sign up?

2009-04-29T12:54:00.000+08:00

Dear friends,The venue of the AWARE EGM has been changed to the following:Date: Saturday, May 2, 2009Time: 12:00pm - 5:00pmLocation: Singapore EXPO Hall 2Add: 1 Expo Drive, #01-01 Points To Note:1) Admission and registration would be from 12 noon to 2 pm on Saturday, 2nd May 2009 .2) It is mandatory to show your NRIC for admission and registration.3) Only FEMALE members who are Singaporean & PRs

Keep Religion Above Politics

2009-04-28T17:54:00.001+08:00

`Keep religion above the fray of petty politics'Vivian Balakrishnanwarns of the danger of mixing the twoMonday • April 27, 2009ZUL OTHMANzul@mediacorp.com.sgTHE Aware spat is not a national problem, and the Government has no intention of intervening in it, said the Minister for Community Development, Youth and Sports Vivian Balakrishnan. This, even as he warns the two warring groups — the new

Aware of Aware

2009-04-27T15:03:00.000+08:00

April 24, 2009Lawyer's key role in Aware coupBy Zakir HussainSENIOR lawyer Thio Su Mien yesterday revealed the key role she played in bringing about the change of leadership at the Association of Women for Action and Research (Aware).Appearing at a press conference called at short notice by some of the association's new leaders, she said she was alarmed to discover that Aware had lost sight of

Overheard Lesbian Mutterings 2

2009-04-22T16:19:00.004+08:00

Do it, Do it once, Do it right, Do it good! If you cheat on me, I will kill you! You mean people have ignored you because you were just being too lovable?I think you are straightI can't help it, she is just TOO hot. Are those boobs real? I am in love with your dog. I hate that I love you. The world turned dark......real dark. Swap bras? I can put 2 goldfishes in yours and you will faint in mine.

Cold Front at 7 am

2009-04-15T10:00:00.002+08:00

As the cold front sweeps across the eastern side of Singapore, a red alert has been confirmed. All residents are asked to seek refuge in designated storm shelters or basements. The rule of thumb here is hide first and talk later.The trees are swaying, the sky is dark. You are flying away, all things look stark. You are the puppet master, tugging at my heart strings. The cold wind chills me to the

Madison

2009-04-14T15:46:00.004+08:00

I adopted a Kangaroo. I named her Madison. Or Maddy for short. People say it is such a "human" name.To me, she is a furry human. She is sweet as pie, bites everything in sight and loves getting her belly rubbed. She frowns when concentrating and enjoys being close to me. M&M are we, my little Maddy and me. P/S: Maddy's a mongrel, maybe she is dog and kangaroo mix?

Will a lover always be a lover?

2009-04-08T12:52:00.003+08:00

When a past lover and present lover crosses paths in your heart, there is a strange mixture of pain and pleasure. Pleasure at finding someone new and pain at seeing that old person go. I wonder when we know someone has taken over. Is it when your old lover says something and it just annoys you? Or when your new lover's laughter rings in your head constantly? Is it when you yearn to give

Sam in Wonderland

2009-04-02T11:00:00.003+08:00

Winter was cold I was asked to go for broke Really quite stoked Silly little reasons spoke So I arrived in wonderland Looking for my red shoes Hopefully with little wings To fly me off to girl heaven Among other things

Butches to Riches

2009-03-31T23:55:00.003+08:00

Just because a girl dresses like a man, doesn't mean they want to be a man. Some do and some don't. It could be a matter of personal expression of style, a men's shirt that cannot be found in the women's department. Or she could be straddling the line to find the right outward expression for inward feeling. I have heard many self proclaimed butches comment that wearing looser clothing makes them

What and where is Taboo?

2009-03-07T06:17:00.002+08:00

Taboo is undisputedly the hottest dance club to hit the Singaporean scene in the last 10 years. Located at 65/67 Neil Rd, it is a stone throw's away from a large parking lot and roadside parking. Come see Taboo transformed into a wedding hall for a night! Miss it and regret it!

Elizabeth Wong's Resignation

2009-02-27T19:28:00.002+08:00

Her opposition hits it where it hurts. Her heart. Her privacy was grossly violated. My question is......why didn't she take legal action against the bearer of the photos? Why did she have to quit? Isn't it just caving in? Why did the Malaysian media publish and broadcast the photos/video? What happened to privacy laws and responsible journalism? I wouldn't want to be a politician especially when

FTM/MTF

2009-02-27T00:33:00.003+08:00

What is the deal with this outrage about FTM or MTFs? Just like some people prefer lipo or breast implants, they just want to change something physically. So what? I think feeling trapped in another gender's body is a MUCH better reason for surgery than wanting bigger boobs or a smaller ass. Looking back, I wonder if the secondary school binding phase was a revolution, in and of itself? Breasts

Review of Stone Butch Blues By Leslie Feinberg

2009-02-24T17:06:00.005+08:00

I started reading this book 3 months ago. I read the first 2 chapters and felt it was too much to handle. It was depressing......plain and simple. Too much talk of rape, hurt and pain. I passed it on to a butch friend of mine. Who could not put it down and breeze through it easily. She told me I should read it, even if it is difficult. I wouldn't regret it. I did. Read it I mean. I didn't regret

In Loving Memory of Max Lim 2003-2008

2009-02-19T18:33:00.003+08:00

His name is Max He was rad He played with dad And was never truly bad He was a chronic wagger But never did he swagger Sometimes he was a doggy beggar Going for whateverThere is no doubt He makes me pout When he plays punk When I am not around My rad dog Max who could catch rats

Alexander Wang's Limited Edition Condoms

2009-02-11T16:41:00.005+08:00

It is a safe assumption that condoms are meant for a once off use only. My question is, how do people recognise that they are Alexander Wang's limited edition condoms? Wouldn't you be in a hurry to get it on? Who has time to take a close look at the packaging? Is it a glow in the dark version with the brand name on the surface of it?Or does it have a little tag on the condom, like Levis jeans,

Dildo Blvd

2009-02-11T15:57:00.002+08:00

Residents in a rural town of Darwin renamed their street "dildo blvd" after 30 sex toys were lying in front of a house on Friday morning. Where did the toys come from? No one knows.

First Date No Nos

2009-02-09T04:30:00.003+08:00

DO NOT ask "Are you PMSing?"If she is, you are in deep shit, if she is not, you are still in deep shit. DO NOT keep looking at your watch. It is plain rude. If she is not your type but you get along well, just cut the date short. You can still be friends. DO NOT crane your neck to catch glimpses of other girls. You are just asking for it. She might feel like you are chronic skirt chaser. DO NOT

Overheard Lesbian Mutterings

2009-02-09T04:00:00.003+08:00

I am not TOO tall, you are just TOO short. I am not beautiful but I sure am cute. I don't think TOO much, it is just that you think TOO little. You can ask me out if you want to. I am out sometimes.I just want to fuck you. Do you know where is cunthill? erm......you mean cainhill? You love your friends more than me.

V Day

2009-02-08T03:13:00.004+08:00

Tell that special someone you love her this coming V day. Some heartfelt romantic gift ideas, straight from this horse's mind. 1. Book of Poems Highlight certain significant sentences that remind you of her. Write little notes about her on the side. Don't let her know. Let her discover it when she reads the book. Brownie points if you write a book of poems yourself. 2. Little Locket Buy her a

Vespas-Spotted at car park opposite Orchard Cineleisure

2009-02-08T02:28:00.003+08:00

I likey......perfect for zooming through little streets.

Pictures of Dinah Shore 2008

2009-02-05T10:03:00.005+08:00

Review of Dinah Shore 2008

2009-02-05T09:12:00.004+08:00

As Dinah Shore 2009 looms closer, all lesbians hungry for some girl on girl action are getting fired up. So take it from one who has been there done that in 2008. 1. Check the websites regularly for updates. Shows are added all the time. 2. Try to stay at the host hotel if the budget allows. Lots of rooms, lots of lesbians......you get my drift. 3. Don't get all partied out on the first day and

CNY Family Woes

2009-02-01T10:29:00.002+08:00

There is no time like Chinese New Year. Where relatives ask you why you are not married?Why did you let go of that fantastic boy of a catch LONG time ago?Then you bear witness to couples with children. Then you can't help but wonder, would I have kids someday?I guess I can take the costly option of adopting, under the guise of being unable to find a suitable guy. Or I can get a guy to jerk off in

A Femme-Fatal

2009-02-01T00:15:00.004+08:00

Lesbians often think that femmes have it easy. Looking more stereotypically heterosexual means that people are more comfortable with you. But on the flip-side, guys might be attracted to you or think they might have a chance with you. Which complicates matters from the get go. No label or role is a win win situation. The grass is greener on the other side. You might want to graze on the femme

GLBT Frienenmies

2009-02-01T00:03:00.002+08:00

We question why there are so little options for lesbian entertainment.But then are we conscious about supporting lesbian enterprises? Events and entertainment that are catered to your needs. Or being a GLBT friendly establishment is not a pro at all? If we do not support each other and make this community stronger then there will be less opportunities for all. That is the way it is.

Girl Crushes

2009-01-31T23:34:00.005+08:00

A friend hand made these for me. I am flattered that she thought it was my night. I went to private lesbian only event this weekend and it got me thinking. It is so confusing to navigate a landscape of maybes, pros and cons. Lesbian dating is in a league of its own. It is not uncommon for crushes to happen and for people to hold on to crushes for years to come. Perhaps it is the idea of being in

Bendable Women

2009-01-30T15:02:00.002+08:00

How do we tell whether someone is so called "bendable"? How can we tell whether our benddar is working? Is it that she looks at you a tad longer than usual? Is it that she "accidentally" brushes against you? Is she a feminist that is for same sex marriage? She insists that she has never had a boyfriend and it would be hard for her to find one. She tells you she has a ton of gay friends and think

Do we complain too much and do too little?

2009-01-29T02:54:00.006+08:00

My friend made a comment that women just complain/nag/gossip too much. Men are able to focus on the things that are important and combat it. While women waste valuable time and energy. Men are problem solvers and women speak to expel negative energy. Then I was thinking, wait until she doesn't speak to you,Then you are screwed. Wait until you need her encouragement and comfort,Then you are

Bigger is Better

2009-01-21T11:26:00.000+08:00

"Whatever you give a woman, she will make greater. If you give her sperm, she'll give you a baby. If you give her a house, she'll give you a home. If you give her groceries, she'll give you a meal. If you give her a smile, she'll give you her heart. She multiplies and enlarges what is given to her. So, if you give her any crap......be ready to receive a ton of shit." Courtesy of Audrey P.

Bargaining Chip

2009-01-17T17:54:00.000+08:00

Since when did love become a bargaining chip?Since when did amusement become abuse? Since when were all of the cards laid on the table? Since when did love become a dirty word? Since when?

Growth

2009-01-17T17:45:00.002+08:00

When the initial honeymoon period is over, there is a sedated kind of love buzz that surrounds both of you. There is definite potential for growth. Slow and steady. Smooth when ready.

Tabs on Taboo

2009-01-17T16:36:00.004+08:00

Body modification has been popular in Singapore for many years. There are many reasons why people get a tattoo. I did a little private poll of tattoo lovers. Here are several: 1. I like straddling the fine line between pleasure and pain. 2. It is all for the artistic value of it.3. Self expression. 4. The experience of getting one, the trust needed between 2 complete strangers. 5. It was an act

Spy Wear

2009-01-16T14:35:00.003+08:00

I have my boyish days when I am in jeans and a looser T. I have my girly girl days when I am in a short skirt and a tighter T. I have my incognito days when I don large sunglasses, dress in classic colors and just keep out of the crowd. I was never really into dresses, it could be because of my hourglass figure.*Button-down shirts are also a big no-no for me. Boobs boobs....why do I have such

Stink or Swim

2009-01-15T23:42:00.004+08:00

Stink http://www.cynthiarowley.com/-------> Take offense, you just might fall asleep.http://www.abercrombie.com/anf/index.html ---------> Soft 100% cotton t-shirts but how long will that captivate you? www.babyphat.com---------->Kimora L. might be hot but her collection sure is not.www.guess.com-----------> It just doesn't keep us guessing. Swimhttp://www.byblos.it/ ---------> I would consider

Remember The Times?

2009-01-13T04:43:00.004+08:00

We fell in love over coffeeWe fell in love indeed We took a silly nose diveInto the river we weep The days become nightThings just ain't right That's when my lover died

My Lover Once Said To Me

2009-01-09T11:55:00.003+08:00

A compilation of memorable lesbian sweet nothings" Life is like a box of chocolates but I am the yummiest truffle" "I like the smell of my own farts" "I like to watch you sleep" "I can see why my mom loves you" "I can eat a bowl of instant noodles with you and be happy" "You really should make me yours" "If you had 2 dollars, I know you will give me $1.80" "Here are my car keys, drive it!" "She

Once

2008-12-02T11:50:00.001+08:00

I finally watched it. It is as entertaining as I thought it would be. Great songs, simple emotions. Watch it!

Trick Or Treat

2008-11-30T14:49:00.002+08:00

The start of every relationship could be a trick or a treat. When opportunity comes knocking. Should you open the door to your heart and let her in? Should you create a little special room where you place all your memories and love inside? Should you restrain and say no to something potentially special to you? If the aim of life is happiness then it is only right to risk all and gain more. There

Goldilocks

2008-11-24T15:40:00.002+08:00

I have this sneaking suspicion that BKB gave birth to Goldilocks. She has a bulging tummy and short hair. I love my Goldilocks. I gotta check whether she has a scar on her brow.

True Stories of Lesbian Internet Dating Series 2

2008-11-21T11:44:00.001+08:00

Disclaimer: Names are not used, in case those nut cases hunt me down. Any similarities to any person, living or dead is purely intentional. Australian Boi We started off as friends, she was in Australia and I was in Singapore. We both just ended a tedious relationship and wasn't ready for another one. We met on MSN frequently and enjoyed chatting casually. We started looking

True Stories of Lesbian Internet Dating Series 1

2008-11-20T14:35:00.001+08:00

Gorgeous Nurse She was an american nurse volunteering in Africa. Her photo was gorgeous and she wrote really well. She moved on to MSNing really quickly. This made her more real and tangible. She would call me sometimes and I would call her too. Like a cannonball, I was in love. How lucky can I be? A gorgeous lesbian with a kind heart. She told me she volunteers in third world countries

She said she said

2008-11-17T07:41:00.002+08:00

Everyone has the right to love and happiness. There is really nothing to be shy about. All of us have emotional needs. Lesbian or not. We can accumulate wealth and have no one to buy things for. We can roll in dough and have no one to roll with. We can plant a garden and have no one to smell the roses with. We can walk the line and have no one to pull us back. Happiness is self made but it helps

Picking Up The Violin

2008-11-17T07:31:00.002+08:00

I fixed my friend's old violin. It is now alive again. Reuse and recycle. An old violin that hasn't seen in finger in years, has finally gotten a new lease of life. I want to make a dirty lesbian joke here but will refrain. I love love love music. I love love love musicians. I vow to stop being a workaholic and enjoy life. I remind myself when the going gets rough......it is when the tough gets

Having a Child

2008-11-16T07:34:00.002+08:00

It is pretty sad that Singaporean lesbians equate being lesbian as being childless. It is another thing if you are not into children. Then so be it. But sometimes if you don't even entertain the possibility, you are missing out on a whole world of experiences. To some, being a mother is the hardest but most fulfilling experience that is. Your kids bring you unlimited joy and yes......admittedly

Cycling uphill

2008-11-13T13:36:00.002+08:00

A person that is slowly finding myself. Shouldn't take some things seriously. Should take some things more seriously. A hopeless romantic that tries to run away sometimes. I want to live life with no regrets. I want to be be engulfed by a sea of friends, family, lover and pets. I want to make this journey as unforgettable as possible. I want to feel like I am soaring every day of the

Prop 8 passes in CA

2008-11-13T13:17:00.003+08:00

I really wonder why people take so much time to hate when they can take time to love. Or better still, make love. When personal views cause a divide among people, it is just plain wrong. Lesbians and gays have the right to love, just like any other heterosexual. Legally recognised marriages is not just a name sake. It offers mutual financial protection, company benefits, tax reductions and so on.